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Returning to work after having children can feel like stepping into a completely new world. Whether you’re coming back after maternity leave, have taken a short career break, or spent years raising children, rebuilding your professional network is essential to re-entering the workforce with confidence.

Why does professional networking matter for returning mums?

A strong professional network can:

  • Lead to job opportunities and referrals
  • Build your confidence and self-worth
  • Help you stay updated with industry trends
  • Re-establish your professional identity

As many out of work report feeling out of the loop, connecting with peers, mentors, and hiring decision-makers is key to a successful return.

What are some ways I can rebuild my network after having children?

1. Start with ‘warm contacts’

Reach out to former colleagues, managers, or clients. Let them know you’re returning to work and open to opportunities. Keep your message casual and confident.

Example LinkedIn message:
‘Hi [Name], I’m exploring new career opportunities after a career break for parenting. I’d love to catch up and hear what’s new in your world. Let me know if you’re free for a virtual coffee!’

2. Use LinkedIn to reintroduce yourself

Update your profile with a professional photo, an updated headline, and a short summary explaining your break positively.

Include:

  • Your current goals
  • Key skills and strengths
  • The value you bring to an employer

🔗 Need help with this? Check out ivee’s free LinkedIn resources for anyone who’s taken time out of work.

3. Join mum-focused networking groups

UK-based networks that support mums returning to work:

👥 Consider joining relevant Facebook groups, Slack communities, or local meetups too.

4. Attend industry events and webinars

Look for events via:

Online attendance is often possible for anyone balancing childcare.

5. Volunteer or freelance to build connections

Offering your skills on a voluntary or freelance basis is a great way to meet people, gain recent experience, and rebuild confidence.

Start with:

  • Charity organisations
  • Community groups
  • Local councils
  • Startups needing flexible support

What do I say when networking as a returner?

It’s normal to worry about what to say when explaining your career break. Here’s how to phrase it:

‘I took a planned career break to raise my family and I’m now looking to re-enter the workforce in a role that values collaboration and flexibility. I’ve stayed active through [courses/volunteering/side projects] and I’m excited about this next chapter.’

What are the best UK networking platforms for returning mums in the UK?

PlatformPurposeCost
iveeJob platform for anyone returning to work with free events & resourcesFree
LinkedInProfessional networking & job searchFree / Premium
Mumsnet WorkForum for returners & working mumsFree
Women Returners NetworkEvents & support for experienced returnersSome free resources
Meetup.comIn-person events by topic/locationVaries

Build confidence through learning and visibility

As you network, combine it with light upskilling and visibility tactics:

Enrol in a Return to Work Bootcamp

Take a short digital course (Google Garage, FutureLearn, etc.)

Comment meaningfully on posts in your industry

Join ivee’s community of those coming back to work after time away

Share helpful resources on LinkedIn weekly

Ask for recommendations from old colleagues

FAQs: networking after a career break

Further reading & resources

Be supported throughout your journey back to work

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